Relational Tips:

• Ask: Does this person enhance, encourage, & energize my relationship with Jesus or do they drain, discourage, and or deflect my relationship with Jesus? Relationships start off “all about God” but as they progress, God gets more lip service then actual service. 
• Determine the health of your relationship with Jesus…it will be a reflection of how you love others. Are you shallow, fake or distant with people? That is how you truly are with Jesus.
• Don’t play games: no manipulating, lying, compromising… be real with yourself, God and others
• Don’t settle for second best! You are God’s best, (See Ephesians 2:10) you and your kids need someone who is a great example of Jesus not Judas.